"For some reason, it's a trait that many don't seem to expect from someone in my family," Harpuia says. "I think they set too much of their expectations based on my uncle."

"I think it's unfair to make such assumptions about anyone, without getting to know them first."

Or getting to know us and then insisting our behavior had been deceptive all along because we didn't meet their idea of what Lightbots should be, she thinks, but doesn't add.